The dogging lifestyle – find out more

There is no official guidebook or dummy book written about the dogging lifestyle. If you want to find out about the rules and etiquette then just read this page and find out all the secrets of successful outdoor sex. We will give you a good overview and then you can visit our forums and blogs for more details about specific regulations.

There are a few basic dogging rules and etiquette that we want to discuss with you. It doesn’t matter if you are completely new to this lifestyle or have been a mature dogger for a couple of years, you will still find it interesting. This applies to you if you are a couple, a group or an individual or if you are straight, gay, bisexual or a transsexual.


Let’s first get the term dogging straight. There are a lot of misconceptions about this adult activity like that it means giving your partner a hand job under the table at a restaurant. Or even worse having sex during broad daylight on a public beach in front of families and then getting arrested by the police. If you’ve read the newspaper reports you’ll understand why you don’t want this to happen to you, especially not in strict Muslim countries.

This type of behaviour is not the outdoor sex lifestyle that we approve of. None of our respected mature members will ever put themselves or the general public in an uncomfortable situation like the ones mentioned above. The adults on our site have enjoyed this adult activity for a couple of years and they don't foresee becoming bored with it anytime soon. The secret to a successful experience is that you follow the rules and etiquette and then you can still have fun but in a safe and secure environment.

Rules and etiquette

The first rule of the dogging lifestyle is that you don't offend any individual or group with your behavior. You can’t force yourself unto a couple or individual. If someone doesn't want you to watch them having sex, then you have to respect their privacy and leave them alone. Rude language and bad personal hygiene is also something you need to keep under control.

If you join our community you will get access to legitimate locations where you can have public sex without offending anyone. We also encourage you to only visit these spots at the times that we suggest and to follow strict dogging etiquette. This includes respecting the environment and not litter or doing something stupid like start a fire in a forest area. If you've used condoms then make sure that you dispose of them in a trash can and not just throw them out of your car.

If you want another couple to follow you to a more secluded spot then flash your headlights once and drive to where you want to be. If they are interested then they will follow. If you want your audience to touch and interact with you then roll down your window or open the car doors.