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The Lifestyle Terms and Abbreviations
AC/DC - Bisexual, swings both ways (Male or Female)
Bareback - Sex without condoms
BBW - Big beautiful women/Big breasted women
BDSM - Bondage, domination and submission, sadism masochism
BD - Bondage
Bi - Bisexual, term used by females and males
Bi- Curious - term used by male or females that are unsure about their sexuality and has limited experience with sexual activities with the gender.
Bukkake - Men wanking and cumming onto the face/body of females.
Bulls - A male that fucks a cuckold’s partner.
CD - Cross dresser
CPL - couple
Cream pie - This is after a male has ejectulated and her partner cleans her up
Cuckold - A wife that fucks guys whilst her husband watches. The husbands are not allowed to take part and the wife normally uses a Bull.
DP - Double penetration, normal one penis into the vagina and another penis into the arse
DV - Double vaginal penetration - the act of two males both inserting their penis into one vagina at the same time
Fb - Fuckbuddy
FFM - 3some two females and one male
MMF - 3 some involving two males and one female
Full swap/ FS - full swap this is normally where penative sex takes places with another person’s partner
GILF - Grannies I’d like to fuck
MILF - Mum’s I’d like to fuck
MWC - married with children
NSA - No strings attached
Soft swingers/Softies - No penetrative sex takes place unless it’s it between your own partners.
TS - Transsexual
TV/trannies - Transvestites
VWE - Very well endowed relating to the males penis size
Vanilla - Non swingers
Stunt cock - Young male that performs for couples
BiM - Bi male
BIF - Bi female
CTOA - Can travel or accommodate
DDF - Drug and disease free
FA - fat admirer
F2F - face to face meeting
GBF - Gay black female
GBM - Gay black male
GSOH - Good sense of humour
GWF - Gay white female
GWM - Gay white male
GF - Girlfriend
BF - boyfriend
HWP - Height/weight/proportion
IR - Interracial normal relates to one partner being white and one being Asian, or black
ISO - Insignificant other
ISO - in search of
LDR - Long distance relationship
LTR - Long term relationship
MBA - Married but available
NS - non smoker
NSA - No strings attached
NUMP - No ugly men please
NUWP - No ugly women please
PF - Professional female (Escort)
PM - Professional Male
SALT - Single and loving it
SPARK - Single parent raising kids
TG - Transgender
WLTM - Wold love to meet
Snowballing - The ct of exchanging semen between others.
Dogging - Those who take part in sexual acts outside
Clean - Disease and drug free
Separate rooms - Couples that play with other partners in separate rooms
Closet swinger - person who hides that they are a swinger
Cunnilingus - Stimulation of the clit or vagina by the mouth
Exhibitionist - A person who stimulated by showing their sexual parts and or enjoys being watched whilst taking part in sexual activities
Fellatio /blowjob - Stimulation by a male having his penis sucked by mouth
Gang bang - One women having sex with a group of men
Group sex - normally in a club there is a room where everyone that enters can have sex and touch each other
Safe word - This is a word that is exchanged between partners and is shouted out if they wish to stop play or used in a BDSM environment
Rubber - condom
Pro - Prostitute or paid escort
Social - Event arranged by swingers to meet other swingers without any sexually activity taking place.
Swapping - two couples exchanging partners
Straight - Person who is not bi-sexual
Soft swing - same room sexual activity without penative sex
Voyeur - A person who enjoys watching others engaging in sexual activates
Common Chat Terms and Abbreviations
A
B
C
D
E
F
G
H
I
J
K
L
M
N
O
P
Q
R
S
T
U
V
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Y
Z
?4u - I have a question for you
@TEOTD - At the end of the day
121 - one to one (Private Chat)
182 - I hate you
10Q - Thank you
2MI - Too much information
2M2H - Too much to handle
2MOR - Tomorrow
2EZ - To easy
2G2BT - Too good to be true
2NTE - Tonight
AFF - As a matter of fact
AAK - Asleep at keyboard
AAK - Alive and kicking
AAMOF - As a matter of fact
AAMOI - As a matter of interest
AAP - Always a pleasure
AAR - At any rate
ABT - About
ADN - Any day now
AEAP - As early as possible
AFC - Away from computer
AFAIAA - As far as i am aware
AFAIK - As far as i know
AFAIUI - As far as i understand it
ALOL - Actually laughing out loud
LOL - Laughing out loud
BBL - Be back later
AMAP - As much as possible
AOTA - All of the above
APP - Appreciate
AQAP - As quick as possible
ASAP - As soon as possible
ASL or A/S/L - Age/Sex/Location
ASLA - Age/Sex/Location/Availability
ATB - All the best
ROFL - Rolling on floor laughing
ATSL - Along the same lines
AYDY - Are you done yet?
AYEC - At your earliest convenience
AYS - Are you serious?
AYT - Are you there?
B - Back
B& - banned
B2W - back to work
B/F - Boyfriend
B4 - before
B4N - bye for now
BASOR - Breathes a sigh of relief
BAU - Business as usual
BAY - Back at you
BBIAB - Be back in a bit
BBIAM - Be back in a minute
BBN - Bye bye now
BBS - Be back soon
BFF - Best friends forever
BFD - Big freaking deal
BFFN - Best friend for now
BG - Big grin
BGWM - Be gentle with me
BIF - Before I forget
BION - Believe it or not
BLNT - Better luck next time
BM - Bite me
BME - Based on my experience
BM&Y - Between me and you
BOB - Back of buddy
BN - Bad news
BOL - Best of luck
BOLO - be on the look out
BOOMS - Bored out of skull
BOT - Back on topic
BRB - Be right back
BRBB - Be right back babe
BRNC - Be right back, nature calls
BRD - Bored
BRH - Be right here
BRT - Be right there
BSTS - Better safe than sorry
BTA - But then again
BTDT - Been there done that
BTW - By the way
BTYCL - Bootycall
BWL - Bursting with laughter
BYOB - Bring your own beer
BYOD - Bring your own drink
BYTM - better you than me
C&G - Chuckle & Grin
CB - Coffee break
CID - Consider it done
CM - Call me
CMB - Call me back
CMIIW - Correct me if I’m wrong
CMON - Come on
CNP - Continued in next post
COS - Because
C/P - Cross post
CSL - Can’t stop laughing
CT - Can’t talk
CTC - Care to chat
CTN - Can’t talk now
CTO - Check this out
CUA - See you around
CUL - See you later
M8 - Mate
CUMID - See you in my dreams
CWOT - Complete waste of time
CWYL - Chat with you later
CUA - See you around
CUL - See you later
M8 - Mate
CUMID - See you in my dreams
CWOT - Complete waste of time
CWYL - Chat with you later
CYE - Check your email
CYO - See you online
DBEYR - Don’t believe everything you read
DF - Don’t even go there
DGAF - Don’t give a F**K
DGA - Don’t go anywhere
DGT - Don’t go there
DIKU - Do I know you?
DILLIGAF - Do I look like I give a F**k
DKDC - Don’t know, Don’t care
DL - Download
DM - Doesn’t matter
DQMOT - Don’t quote me on this
DR - Didn’t read
DTRT - Do the right thing
DUR - Do you remember
DWF - Divorced white female
DWM - Divorced white male
DYNWUTB - Do you know what your talking about?
DYFI - Did you find it
E1 - Everyone
EAK - Eating at keyboard
EMA - Email address
EMFBI - Excuse me for butting/jumping in
ENUF - Enough
EOD - End of day
EWG - Evil wicked grin
EZ or EZY - Easy
F - Female
M - Male
MFM - Male/female/male
F2F - Face to face
FAAK - Falling asleep at keyboard
FAF - Funny as F**K
FB - Facebook
FBM - Fine by me
FC - Fingers crossed
FCOL - Foe crying out loud
FFA - Free for all
FFS - For f**K Sake
FICCL - Frankly I couldn’t care less
FIIOOH - Forget it, I’m out of here
FOAD - F**k off and die
FOMC - Falling off my chair
FOAF - Friend of a friend
FRT - For real though
FTBOMH - From the bottom of my heart
FU - F**k You
FWB - friends with benefits
FWIW - For what it’s worth
FWM - Fine with me
FYEO - For your eyes only
FYA - For your amusement
FYI - For your information
G - Giggles
G/F - Girlfriend
G2CU - Good to see you
G2G - Got to go
G2R - Got to run
G2TU - Go to tell you
GA - Go ahead
GAL - Get a life
GAS - Got a second
GB - Good bye
GDR - Grins, ducks and runs
GFI - Go for it
GFN - Gone for now
GG - Gotta go
GGMSOT - Got to get me some of that
GGOH - Gotta get out of here
GIAR - Give it a rest
GMTA - Great minds think alike
GMV - Gets my vote
GN - Good night
GNE1 - Good night everyone
GOI - Get over it
GR8 - Great
GOL - Giggling out loud
GRATZ - Congratulations
GT - Good try
GS - Good shot
GTG - Got to go
GTRM - Going to read mail
GWHTLC Glad we had this little chat
H8 - Hate
HAG1 - have a good one
HAK - Hug and kiss
H2CUS - Hoe to see you soon
HAGO - Have a good one
HAND - Have a nice day
HB - Hurry back
HBU - How about you?
HF - Have fun
HHIS - Hangs head in shame
HOAS - Hold on a second
HRU - How are you?
HTH - Hope this helps
IAC - In any case
IAO - I am out of here
IB - I’m Back
IC - I see
ICAM - I couldn’t agree me
ICBW - It could be worse
ICEDI - I can’t even discuss it
ICFILWU I could fall in love with you
ICYMI - In case you missed it
IDBI - I don’t believe it
IDC - I don’t care
IDK - I don’t know
IDTS - I don’t think so
IFYP - I feel your pain
IHNI - I have no idea
IIRC - If I remember correctly
IK - I know
ILU - I love you
IM - Instant message
IMO - In my opinion
IMU - I miss you
IOMH - In over my head
IOW - In other words
IRL - In real life
IRMC - I rest my case
ITYK - I thought you knew
IUSS - If you say so
IYKWIM - If you know what I mean
IYO - In your opinion
JFF - Just for fun
JAM - Just a minute
JIC - Just in case
JJ - Just joking
JLME - Just let me know
JK - Just Kidding
JP - Just Playing
JTLYK - Just to let you know
JW - Just wondering
K - Okay
KB - Kick butt
KFY - Kiss for you
KIA - Know it all
KISS - Keep it simple stupid
KIT - Keep in touch
KMA - Kiss my A**E
KOW - Knock on wood
KOTC - Kiss on the cheek
KNIM - Know what I mean
L2G - Like to go
L2K - Like to come
L8R - Later
LBAY - Laughing back at you
LD - Long distance
LFG - Looking for a group
LH6 - Lets have sex
LHM - Lord help me
LHO - Laughing head off
LIC - Like I care
LMBO - Laughing my butt off
LMIRL - Lets meet in real life
LMK - Let me know
LTNS - Long time no see
LTS - Laughing to myself
LVM - leave a voice mail
MFI - Mad for it
MOSS - Member of the same sex
MSG - Message
MTF - More to follow
MYOB - Mind you own business
N00B - Newbie
N1 - Nice one
N2M - Nothing too much
NBD - No big deal
NE1 - Anyone
NFM - None for me/ not for me
NFS - Not for sale
NFW - No F**King way
NIGI - Now I get it
NMJC - Nothing much, just chilling
NM - Never mind
NMU - Not much, you?
NO1 - No one
NP - No problem
NRN - No response/reply necessary
NSA - No strings attached
NT - Nice try
OATUS - On a totally unrelated subject
OB - Oh baby
OH - Overheard
OMG - Oh my god
OMW - On my way
OP - On phone
OTB - Off to bed
OTT - Over the top
PCM - Please call me
Peeps - People
PIC - Picture
PMP - Peeing my pants
PLD - Played
PLMK - Please let me know
PRON - Pornography
PRT - Party
PTMM - Please tell me more
PXT - Please explain that
PYT - Pretty young thing
PZ - Peace
QFE - Question for everyone
QL - Quit laughing
QOTD - Quote of the day
QQ - Quick question
RBAY - Right back at you
RFN - Right F**king now
RL - real life
RME - Rolling my eyes
RSN - Real soon now
RUMOF - Are you male or female
RUT - Are you there
RUOK - Are you ok
RYO - Roll your own
RYS - Are you single
S2S - Sorry to say
SAL - Such a laugh
SAT - Sorry about that
SH - Same here
SH^ - Shut up
SHID - Slaps head in disgust
SICNR - Sorry I couldn’t resist
SIMYC - Sorry I missed your call
SIT - Stay in touch
Slap - Sounds like a plan
SMHID - Scratching my head in disbelief
SO - Significant other
SOAB - Son of a Bi**h
SOL - Sooner or later
SOMY - Sick of me yet?
SorG - Straight or Gay?
SOT - Short of time
SOWM - Someone with me
SPST - Same place same time
STR8 - Straight
STW - Search the web
SUL - See you later
SWL - Screaming with laughter
SWMBO - She who must be obeyed. Meaning wife or partner
SYL - See you later
TAFN - Thats all for now
TBC - To be continued
TBH - To be honesty
TBL - Text back later
TC - Take care
TCOY - Take care of yourself
TD2M - Talk dirty to me
TFF - Too F**king Funny
TFS - Thanks for sharing
TFTI - Thanks for the invite
TGIF - Thank god it’s Friday
THX - Thanks
THT - Think happy thoughts
TIA - Thanks in advance
TIC - Tongue in cheek
TILIS - Tell it like it is
TL - Too long
TMB - Text me back
TMI - Too much information
TMOT - Trust me on this
TMTH - Too much to handle
TMWFI - Take my word for it
TNT - Till next time
TOJ - Tears of joy
TOU - Thinking of you
TPTB - The powers that be
CM - Chat monitor
TSNF - Thats so not fair
TTFN - Ta ta for now
TSTB - The sooner the better
TTTT - These things take time
TTUL - Talk to you later
TWSS - That what she said
TTG - Time to go
TTYL - Talk to you later
TTYS - Talk to you soon
TY - Thank you
TYS - Told you so
TYT - Take your time
^URS - Up yours
UCMU - You crack me up
UFB - Unf**king believable
UDS - Ugly domestic scene
UFN - Until further notice
UGTBK - You’ve got to be kidding
UL - Upload
UOK - You ok?
URA* - You are a star
URH - You are hot
URW - You are welcome
USBCA - Until something better comes along
USU - Usually
UTM - You tell me
UW - Your welcome
VBS - Very big smile
VEG - Very evil grin
VFF - Very freaking funny
VFM - Value for money
VIP - Very important person
VCC - Very good condition
VM - Voicemail
VN - Very nice
WAYF - Where are you from?
W/B - Write back
WBU - What about you
WC - Welcome
WCA - Who cares anyway
WE - Whatever
WIBNI - Wouldn’t it be nice if
WDALYIC - Who died and left you in charge
WDYK - What do you know
WDYT - What do you think
WITP - What is the point
WL - Whatta loser
W/O - Without
WOM - Waste of money
WRK - Work
WRU@ - Where are you at?
WRUD - What are you doing?
WTF - What the f**k
WTG - Way to go
WTH - What the heck
WU - What’s up?
WUCIWUG What you see is what you get
WUF - Where you from?
WUP - Whats up?
WUU2 - What are you up to
WWNC - Wonders will never crease
WWYC - Write what you can
WYCM - Will you call me?
WYD - What are you doing
WYGAM - When you get a minute
YGTBKM - You’ve got to be kidding me
YGG - You go girl
YHBW - You have been warned
YIU - Yes I understand
YKW - You know what
YKWYCD - You know what you can do
YNK - You never know
YR - Yeah right
YT - You there
YTB - Your the best
YTG - Your the greatest
YW - Your welcome
ZOT - Zero tolerance
ZZZZ - Sleeping / bored