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Find BDSM encounters across South Yorkshire. Whether you are a master, mistress or willing sub, we are sure you will find someone who satisfies your desires. Browse profiles of fetish lovers from Sheffield, Barnsley, Rotherham, Doncaster and everywhere in between. We hope you have your spank paddle ready, you are about to find someone who ticks all your boxes. Browse profiles and start chelpin here.

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Recent profiles

Hello! Im excited to meet someone special who shares a passion for life and meaningful connections. I believe in the power of kindness, laughter, and the little moments that make life extraordinary
Amelia (38) Straight Female
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  • Fetish
  • Fisting
  • gags
  • Pony Play
  • Roleplay
  • Sex Toys
  • Switch
  • Trampling
  • Wax Play
I love trying out new recipes or finding hidden gems in the city. If you have a favorite restaurant, Id love to hear about it!
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Me and my boyfriend are looking to adopted a pup to join our fun times, someone who is free to come and go and perhaps stay for a while, feel free to ask me questions I will explain more
jakepe1994 (30, 30) Straight Male, Straight Female
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Fetish
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Pegging
  • Roleplay
  • Sex Toys
  • Switch
We are a loving couple who loves to watch movies and cuddle a lot, we love gaming and day trips
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Male slim sub like to be used and filmed
SpontaneousPhilo (45) Straight Male
  • BDSM
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  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Contract
  • Cuckold
  • Dom
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Fetish
  • Fisting
  • gags
  • Latex
  • Pegging
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
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  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • Switch
  • Trampling
I'm 45 years old, living in the Armthorpe region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 56.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Armthorpe
Hey it’s Hendric here, very kind and honest
Hendrica1 (43) Straight Female
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Sex Toys
  • Spanking / Whipping
Hey it’s Hendric here. I’m to find someone just like me very kind honest and also with a lot of sex and meeting
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Barnsley
Seeking a Connection
FriendlyDreamer (61) CD / Trans Straight CD / Trans
I'm 61 years old, living in the Rotherham region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 51 and 90.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Rotherham
Hello everyone , I'm very happy to meet you hopefully we will have lots of fun together making lots of new memories
Mistressniki234 (48) Straight Female
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • Bondage
  • Casual Dating
  • Discreet Meets
  • Dom
  • Feet
  • Fetish
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Leather / Latex
  • Pegging
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  • Sub
  • Tickle Play
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if u disagree with my ways punishment will be serious harshly hard punishment on your naked body daily until you understand what you need to do from the start, never stear at me or..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
Looking to discover more in the sexual realm....
Snooks (50) Straight Male
  • Sex Toys
  • Sub
Designer, interiors, creative, orginally Fashion design.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Rotherdam
Hi I’m Alex Not on here for hookups Looking for a dom not just in the bedroom but also in day to day life I liked to be looked after but most of the time I’m just completely independent
SUBatomic (21) Straight Female
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Casual Dating
  • Dom
  • Roleplay
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
I like someone who can take control of the relationship but not in a toxic way just so I don’t have to make decisions and get anxious I can’t lie public stuff does get me going
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
’I’m Chloe, a trans woman seeking a dominant partner who is interested in guiding me through my submissive desires. While I’m relatively new to this dynamic, my eagerness to learn and please is limitless.
Chloe88 (36) CD / Trans Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Roleplay
  • Sub
  • suspenders
the feeling of being completely taken by a dominant partner who values trust, respect, and mutual satisfaction as much as I do. I relish the tension that builds when you take contr..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Easy going and calm honest respectful
jdfecehegeccejbh (35) Straight Female
  • BDSM
  • Breast Play
  • Contract
  • Fisting
  • Pegging
  • suspenders
Hey hey , I am sunny Julia always with a positive and a smile ahahah. although my life is not so colorful and joyful, I still always try to remain the kindest and most positive per..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I'm 24 years old, living in the Doncaster region.
Casualgrey2 (24) Straight Male
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  • Cuckold
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  • Foot Fetish
  • Latex
  • Pegging
  • S&M
  • Sex Toys
  • Sub
  • suspenders
I'm 24 years old, living in the Doncaster region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 18 and 50.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Doncaster
uhh,hi. i’m looking for a dom to satisfy all my needs : )
gracce_x (21) Straight Female
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  • Bondage & Discipline
  • gags
  • Roleplay
  • Sex Toys
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
uh, i’m 19. i’m 4’11 if that’s helps ahaha i’m a sub and a brat :)
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
I’m not a novice, but then again not a professional, I’m here to learn from all and anyone who wants to help and teach me how to enjoy the finer things of bdsm
Hermoine (63) CD / Trans Bisexual CD / Trans
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Casual Dating
  • Clubs, Parties & Socials
  • Discreet Meets
  • Dom
  • Dominatrix
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Fetish
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • Open to Anything!
  • Roleplay
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • Swinging
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I love to be made to push my boundaries in anyway that helps you in becoming a better, Master, Mistress, submissive,
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Hemsworth
Hot and horny classy lady here waiting to dominate you filthy lot!
PassionateProfessorigeihc (50) Straight Female
  • Dom
  • Findom
  • Open to Anything!
I get my kicks from doing whatever you like….with certain limits!!
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Staincross
Just a university student looking for someone to serve and worship
Joe (21) Straight Male
  • BDSM
  • Cuckold
  • Feet
  • Fetish
  • Open to Anything!
  • S&M
  • Sex Toys
  • Sub
I love being put in my place. Whether it's worshipping feet or cleaning like a maid and everything in-between
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Will fill this in as we go, but I'm wanting to explore this lifestyle a little more.
CurvyD_x (34) Straight Female
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  • Bondage & Discipline
  • gags
  • Sex Toys
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • suspenders
Will fill this in shortly to see if this website is going to give me what I am looking for. In the meantime, enjoy the view. ;)
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Experienced sub looking for serious Dominant/Top for long term and regular servitude.
Debsub (54) CD / Trans Other CD / Trans
  • A Relationship
  • BDSM
  • blindfold me
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Casual Dating
  • CBT
  • Dungeon Parties
  • Fetish
  • Fisting
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • gags
  • Hookups
  • Latex
  • Medical Play
  • Pegging
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Sex Toys
  • spank me
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  • Sub
  • suspenders
  • tie me up
  • whip me
Not interested in any commercial / pay-to-play, fin arrangement... real only. Subbie, Experienced in real time, previously collared and served couples and singles, any gender or ..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield
Looking to meet someone regularly
Bsaucy55 (24) Straight Female
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  • Breast Play
  • Dom
  • Fetish
  • Foot Fetish
  • Roleplay
  • Sex Toys
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • Sub
  • Switch
I’m 22 years old looking to meet someone regularly on an agreement.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Tinsley
I'm 52 years old, living in the North Elmsall region. I described myself as a bottom but I want to tie guys to the bed and be dominant
Night train 69 (53) Gay Male
  • A Relationship
  • Bears
  • Bicurious
  • Bisexual
  • Bottom
  • Casual Dating
  • Cottaging
  • Discreet Meets
  • Experienced meets
  • First Time Encounter
  • Friends With Benefits
  • Friendship
  • Gay
  • Hookups
  • Mutual Masturbation
  • One on one fun
  • Twinks
  • Versatile
I'm 52 years old, living in the North Elmsall region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 20 and 60 I have a slight disability and use crutches outside I'm also of large ..
UK, England: South Yorkshire, North Elmsall
I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man, ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle.
Imeldabrooks (27) Lesbian Female
  • BDSM
  • Bondage & Discipline
  • Breast Play
  • Chasity
  • Collaring
  • Dom
  • Electro-Play
  • Fetish
  • Fisting
  • Foot Fetish
  • Latex
  • Pegging
  • Pony Play
  • Roleplay
  • S&M
  • Sex Toys
  • Spanking / Whipping
  • suspenders
I like the kinky role play, bondage play, pussy worship, foot worship, and other special ways at pleasuring my partner.
UK, England: South Yorkshire, Sheffield