Online Fetish dating: bondage gear, BDSM gallery

More and more adults are getting into fetish dating as they discover other people who are also fixated on the same thing, be it an object or a body part that gives them sexual gratification. Why is it called a fetish? Well because this sexual attraction to something is not the norm to the average society, even though it may have a big following.

You don’t need to have an extreme obsession over something to join this community, it can also be mild and you might only wish to visit the galleries to see like-minded adults live out your "fantasy". Below we will list the different forms that a fetish comes in and also discuss a few alternative sex activities that the fetish community likes.

The most common forms of fetishes:

a) Material – pvc rubber, leather, vinyl, latex and silk.
Some people like the actual feel of the material and others like the look it gives to a sexual encounter or the sensual effect it creates during an activity. For example: soft silk scarves are great for blindfolding and restraint and if you are into role play then PVC boots are great for dressing up as a sex worker.

b) Shape of clothing- stiletto heels, corsets, spiky shoes, knee-high boots and lingerie.
Our galleries are filled with adults dressed in exotic clothing and especially bondage gear like collars or restraints. If you want to play dress up in public then attend one of our many BDSM events listed on our Event pages.

d) Everything else – body piercing, golden showers, anal sex, Voyeurism.
Basically you can turn anything into a fetish and if you mention your new fixation on our forums it won’t be long before someone else admits that they also have the same ideas. Instead of worrying whether your behavior will be considered normal among those into fetish dating, why not just try it out and you’ll be surprised with the results. As long as it’s not harmful to your health and mental state and not illegal or underage you’ve got our support.

Dominance and Submission role play

The most popular forms of role play in the fetish society involve domination and submission. In this scenario the one partner will be the master (also known as the top) that is allowed to order the other one around and the other is the slave (also known as the bottom). This adult activity is also referred to as S&M (slave and master) or power play. The top can typically punish the bottom by spanking them, tying them up – bondage or even penetrating them in unconventional ways like anal sex or with a strap-on.

A lot of couples see this activity as a good practice that allows the sub to enjoy a period where they don’t have to make any decisions and the dom get’s to practice their communication skills. If you are a newbie to dominance and submission then the most important aspect to concentrate on is trust. Set down the ground rules before you start and if you have a certain fetish then you need to be confident enough to tell your partner about it, so that you can explore it together.

Erotic role-play means that you dress up as a character and perform that role during sex, so that it seems like your partners is having an affair because you are now someone else. You can combine your fetish for clothing, shoes and material and go all out with these fantasies. It’s essential to have a ‘safeword’ when you are acting out a scene to differentiate when you are acting like the victim or when you really want your partner to stop what they are doing.