Local Fetish Buddies - meet femdoms, mistresses and masters

The BDSM community is made up of many role players and in this section we will explain the different types of fetish buddies that you will find on our site. You can use our search directory to find local kinky contacts or you can place your own free personal ad for finding the right sex partner for your needs.

In a sadomasochistic sexual relationship a person can fall into 3 main categories:

• The adult or master who is in charge – males are called dominant or dom; females are called dome, domina, Dominatrix, Femdom or mistress.
• The Submissive person needs guidance by a dominant partner and is called the slave or sub.
• A Switch – person that trades places as either a dominant or submissive player.

These main categories then again split into other sub categories. For example a stay at home wife who is dominant at home will be called a Domestic Femdom. As part of her sexual fetish she will rule her husband with kinky activities like spanking, bondage, facesitting, cbt, smothering, strap-on-dildo penetration and forces anal sex. If you are a Femdom it does not mean that you are in a heterosexual relationship, your submissive partner may be of either sex or any sexual orientation.

A lot of these activities are also practices by the fetish buddies you can make on our site. Once you join you’ll get to read the BDSM forums where there are requests for kinky contacts to take part in erotic spanking, tease and orgasm denial, humiliation, cunnilingus and bondage.

Unlike a domestic Femdom who is only controlling at home you get masters who will show control over their subs in public by walking them around with a dog collar and lead. The dom will also brand the slave with either a tattoo or a another mark that shows they are owned.

UK’s kinky contacts list - Subs, Doms, Masters, Dominatrix

We have thousands of UK and USA profiles featuring dominatrix, masters, mistresses, femdoms and subs. If you are a slave needing the guidance of a strong but caring dom(me), then this is the perfect safe and secure environment to meet someone.

A BDSM relationship is based on trust and communication and it’s better to discuss the activities that the slave is completely against online and not in person. Then the submissive person does not feel intimidated to admit they won’t ever participate in brown showers of anal play. A safe word should also be decided on before the first real-time meeting.

By using our interactive features like private chat rooms, video chat and internal mail you can discuss the hard and soft limits of your behavior. You can also define the rules of how your Dom is going to go about your on-going training so that they derive pleasure from the way you act, speak and think.